Voice chat sex
So, make sure you both block out enough time to do this after things get hot and heavy on the phone.
Although, phone sex quickies can be just as hot too Imagine you had that sexy conversation right as your partner was about to leave work and come home?
It’s hard to believe that through all the technological breakthroughs, long-distance sex is still pretty much the same as it was in 1876 when Alexander Graham Bell invented the telephone so women could describe their ankles to guys over the phone. But phone sex can really feel like that if you don’t know what you’re doing.
Luckily, Lauren Rules, a professional phone sex operator with over 15 years of experience, is here to give her top 14 tips on how to have the best, most non-awkward phone sex of your life.
Although laughing through the awkwardness may work for some people, if it takes you out of the moment, try redirecting to an earlier point of the conversation. I bet you can imagine my warm lips on your penis right now.” Or shift the onus back to your partner with a hot potato-y “tell me more about what you’d do to me."Let’s say your partner goes from 0–60 real fast and starts calling you names you find disrespectful.
It’s important for both parties to understand that it’s okay to call a "detour" (detour is a word that can keep things moving, as opposed to stop).
Lauren says just like with IRL sex, it’s important to reconnect after phone sex with laughter and wind down talk after you both orgasm.Treating phone sex as sexy little appetizing pieces can help take some of the pressure off.It’s perfectly acceptable to tell your partner these are your fantasies for phone sex only, and not fantasies for reality.Just IMAGINE the sparks that would fly as soon as they walked through that door.
This is also a good tip for couples new to the phone sex game.
You might find yourself following along with your partner’s imagination, or you might be taking the reins yourself.